1. SECRET OFFENSE is a lethal relationship killer. Maturity says, "If someone offends you, go to them". Don't harbor it!
2. Offended people often lose the ability to FOLLOW. The spirit of offense tells them, "Only you are fit to lead you".
3. It's unrighteous & immature to "TAKE OFFENSE" with someone who has done you no harm, then demand an apology to make you whole.
4. Your offense with a minister or ministry doesn't qualify you as a voice. Bitterness isn't a VOICE; it's a VICE. You need to be healed.
5. Don't miss church over someone else's offense. Let them work it out. YOU GO TO CHURCH!
6. Don't let another person's offense become yours. Don't be offended WITH them, AT them, FOR them, or BECAUSE of them...NO OFFENSE!
7. Offense is caused by UNMET EXPECTATIONS. Ironically, the people we expect something from never know it, until we become offended.
8. God doesn't lead us by our offense. And even if we deny we're offended, every tree we plant in that offense will sprout DIVISION.
9. Unrighteous conspiracies never work out as planned. Agreeing to sabotage a VISION because you're nursing a secret offense is WICKED.
10. Improperly processed offense will UPROOT YOU from your set place & position you in a distant land to be sifted by the devil.