Check out the message, "Dealing With Your OffenceSet" here: https://youtu.be/o4LhBZ38FU0?t=2957
We're tackling the topic of "Living Offended". Friend, if we listen to the words of The Lord, live in them & let what we learn be worked into our life, then & only then, will it set us free.
Paul says it well in Ephesians 4:15...
"Rather, let our lives lovingly express truth [in all things, speaking truly, dealing truly, living truly]. Enfolded in love, LET US GROW UP in every way and in all things into Him Who is the Head, [even] Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One)."
The only way you get to the next place that you want to be, it always happens this way, God will deal with you about something where you're at right now.