Showing posts with label Commitment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Commitment. Show all posts

Saturday, April 15, 2023

Believing and Belonging


Do you believe in what your local church is doing enough to belong to it?

Belonging to a local church through practical membership happens first when you believe in the work that the local church is doing to the degree that you want to belong to it.

When this happens, you’ve moved from convenience to commitment and from bystander to bootstrapper!

To merely attend a church is to be a spectator from the stands. On the other hand, when you belong to a church, you are actively involved in the work of the church. Anyone can attend and consume what the church is giving out...but people who belong are the ones who are investing their time, talent, and treasure in the cause. Honestly, there will always be those who just want the benefits of the church but refuse to share the responsibility.

As a leader, one of my greatest challenges is moving people from the sidelines to the field. Helping people understand the need for commitment to the local church body is an ongoing challenge. I believe one of the reasons is due to the climate in our culture to remain autonomous...to fly below the radar and not attach yourself to anything in particular for fear of being asked to do something that will require a commitment.

Due to this mindset, we are seeing an increase in spiritual orphans who jump from one church to the next without any identity, accountability, or commitment. Often, these are good people who have convinced themselves that they can be "good Christians" without actually belonging to a local church.

And yet, the Bible speaks to the need for believers to belong to an active local church.


1. Belonging to a local church establishes your identity as a believer.

John 13:35 "By this, all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another."

Identifying yourself as a disciple of Jesus means you’ve identified with a local group of disciples.

We cannot do life alone. When we choose to connect with a local body of disciples, regardless of background, race, or social status, we are testifying to the world that we belong to Him and to those He has connected us to for His Kingdom purpose. When we are connected to a body," we can truly be the "part of the body" He created us to be. The body is connected, not separated.


2. Belonging to a local church moves you from exclusive to inclusive.

As I mentioned, we cannot do life alone. This is why God "places" us in the body as He sees fit. He joins us in a local body, which requires us to learn how to get along. Like any family, we have to learn how to serve one another, love one another, and do so with unselfish motives.

The longer I am connected to a local church through practical membership, the more I find myself caring about others. The Apostle Paul said that we would experience empathy with our brothers and sisters in Christ: 1 Corinthians 12:26 "If one part of the body suffers, all the other parts suffer with it. Or if one part of our body is honored, all the other parts share its honor."

If we are merely casual acquaintances, we do not experience the benefit of forging relational fellowship. It’s in this relational fellowship that we discover we are not independent of one another but rather dependent on each other.

 When I belong to a local church, I’m expressing to my brothers and sisters in Christ that I am just as committed to them as I am to Jesus Christ. In my commitment to the local church, I am modeling my commitment to Christ. Most of us are familiar with John 3:16. It’s a powerful verse that illustrates God’s great love for us. But, have you considered 1 John 3:16? "Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers".  This expectation is placed on the shoulders of believers toward one another.


3. Belonging to a local church stretches my potential.

The greatest "stretching" I have experienced came through my participation in the purposes of the church. Obviously, attending church services is vital to my spiritual growth and health, but my greatest growth comes from participating, not just attending. The Bible says, "As each part does its own special work, it helps the other parts grow, so that the whole body is healthy, growing, and full of love" (Ephesians 4:16).

Since believers are called to belong to a local church body in order to function with purpose, we must also embrace the fact that this cohesion also identifies us as "family." The Bible mentions one another or each other over 50 times in the New Testament. We are commanded to...

Love each other

Pray for each other.

Encourage each other.

Admonish each other.

Greet each other.

Serve each other.

Teach each other.

Accept each other.

Honor each other.

Bear each other’s burdens.

Forgive each other.

Submit to each other.

Be devoted to each other.

and many other mutual tasks.

This is BIBLICAL MEMBERSHIP.

So, the question to each of us, especially to those who attend church services, is:  with whom are you doing these with?”


4. Belonging to a local church meets needs.

When God "saved" me from my sin, He didn’t just save me to sit. He saved me to fulfill a purpose in His body. This is referred to as your "MINISTRY."  Your ministry (assignment) in His body is meant to benefit everyone, not just you.

1 Corinthians 12:7 "A spiritual gift is given to each of us as a means of helping the entire church".

It is through the local church that believers discover, develop, and use their gifts. Even if your ministry or purpose has expanded to a national audience, you never lose your responsibility to your local church and the area you cover. Jesus has not promised to build anyone’s ministry; he has promised to build His church.


5. Belonging to a local church expands God’s reach.

Today, God is using His spiritual body to reach the world. We are His hands and feet among the nations. Yes, we are to love the local church and have tremendous relational fellowship within it. However, we are also called to carry this same relationship to the rest of the world. We start in our Jerusalem and then expand to our Judea, Samaria, and the rest of the world.

Ephesians 2:10 "For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them."


6. Belonging to a local church covers me.

Every believer needs the protection of their local church and leadership. I’ve said for many years, "Left to myself, I’m a trainwreck." Friends, none of us is immune to temptation. Left to ourselves, without accountability, we are all capable of sin. God knows this. This is why we are instructed to help hold each other accountable.

Hebrews 3:13: "But exhort one another daily, while it is called "today," lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin."

"Mind your own business" is not a Christian phrase. We are called and commanded to be involved in each other’s lives. If you know someone who is wavering spiritually right now, it is your responsibility to go after them and bring them back into the fellowship.

James 5:19-20 "19 My dear brothers and sisters, if someone among you wanders away from the truth and is brought back, 20 you can be sure that whoever brings the sinner back from wandering will save that person from death and bring about the forgiveness of many sins."

When you belong to a local church, you are also afforded the spiritual protection of godly leaders. God gives shepherd leaders the responsibility to guard, protect, defend, and care for the spiritual welfare of their flock.

Hebrews 13:17 "Their work is to watch over your souls, and they know they are accountable to God."

The devil loves to disconnect believers from the local church. He picks us off one by one through offense, isolation, disconnection, etc., because he knows that if he can separate us from a local church and the covering of our leaders, we become an easy target.

Friend, being a "Christian" is more than just a commitment to Jesus; it is also a commitment to other "Christians".  Let us be reminded that each of us must move from being "believers" to being "belongers."

You become a Christian by committing yourself to Christ, but you become a church member by committing yourself to a specific group of believers.

The first decision brings salvation; the second brings fellowship.





Wednesday, January 1, 2020

Happy New Year!


Welcome to 2020! Can you believe it!? New Year's Day seems to come faster & faster in recent years, whether we are ready for it or not. We love New Years because it really is a chance to hit reset on many areas of our lives. It's a time to refocus and stir up the gifts God has placed within us.
If you're like most, you're probably making your list of goals & to-do's. You may have pulled out last year's list attempting to pick up where you left off. But no matter what your goals are, I just want to encourage you with Proverbs 16:3 "Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and your plans will succeed."
When you commit something to the Lord, it means you place everything about it in His hands. It means you trust Him with the process & with the end result. It also means that you are willing to lay it down & let it go if you sense Him speaking to your heart, "This isn't the right thing for you right now."
Maybe you don't have any specific goals or plans for the new year yet. Maybe you've had some circumstances that have thrown you off course or you've felt overwhelmed by life. Your part is to commit each day to Him & let Him lead you moment by moment.
Someone said one time, "My five-year plan is the same as my five-minute plan—hear from the Lord & do what He says."  You'll never be disappointed by following His leading. His plans are always for your good. He wants to give you hope & a good future.
Today, we join our faith with yours...that as you put this scripture into practice & commit your ways to the Lord, He will direct your steps in the path of success & blessing in everything you set your hand to in 2020!
#Room,
Russell & Beverly Hylton
Lead Pastors
P.S. Check out our New Year’s Eve message, “Stubborn Commitment” on our Youtube Channel here.

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Thursday, February 21, 2019

The Messy Local Church

2 in 5 married couples meet ONLINE today. But even those 2 in 5 couples who meet online don’t stay online…they get married. Love can be expressed online, but its fulfillment happens deepest through PERSONAL CONTACT. The same can be said about your personal relationship with Jesus through His body...the local church.
Online church DOESN'T ALLOW for serving opportunities & face-to-face interaction with others. When you get up early to set up and tear down, lead a small group of children, greet people with a smile, serve on the production team or serve meals to the homeless, somehow you find a place in service of a goal GREATER THAN YOURSELF.
Parents can catch a podcast or watch online, but KIDS really miss out when PARENTS MISS. To be with their friends who are running in the same direction & to have another voice (youth pastor) who knows their name, favorite food & hopes & dreams saying the same thing a loving parent would say, is so far unreproducible in the online world. I believe that when the parents miss church, the kids are the biggest losers.
About 20 years ago, a CHURCH MEMBER was considered active in the church if he or she attended three times a week. TODAY, a church member is considered active in the church if he or she attends three times a month. :(
Something is wrong with this picture. For 2,000 years, the LOCAL CHURCH, as messed up as it can be, has been God’s place for BELIEVERS to gather, worship, minister, and be accountable to one another.
And every time I mention something about church membership & attendance, I inevitably hear a CLAP BACK of “legalism” or “the church is not a building” or “the church is a messed up institution.”
But the LOCAL CHURCH....yes, the messy local church, is what God has used as His primary instrument to MAKE DISCIPLES. But COMMITMENT is waning among many church members in North America...in this trending cultural slope.
FIVE REASONS WHY....
1. We are MINIMIZING the IMPORTANCE of the local church.
When we do, we are less likely to attend. A few drops of rain may keep many folks from attending church, but it won’t stop them from sitting three hours in the downpour watching their favorite sports team.
2. We worship the IDOLS OF ACTIVITIES.
Many members will replace a day in their church with a day at kid’s soccer or softball games or sleeping off the hangover of the previous day’s activities.
3. We take a lot of VACATIONS FROM CHURCH.
I am not anti-vacation. But 20 years or so ago, we would make certain we attended a church where we were taking a vacation. Today, many members take a vacation from church.
4. We do not have HIGH EXPECTATIONS of our members.
Any purposeful organization expects and gets much out of it members, whether it’s a sports team or a civic organization. It is ironic that most churches do not come close to being a high expectation church.
5. We make INFREQUENT ATTENDEES leaders in our churches.
When we do, we are making a clear statement that even the leaders of the church do not have to be committed to the place they supposedly lead.
Recently I read where a leader of an organization told the members he did not want them if they were not fully committed. They could not be AWOL if they wanted to be a part of the group. He expected full commitment. He is a HIGH SCHOOL FOOTBALL COACH. And all the team members follow that high expectation of commitment.
If we truly expect to make a DIFFERENCE in our communities & our families, members of local churches need to have at least the same level of commitment as members of sports teams.
After all, the MISSION of each local church is FAR MORE IMPORTANT than any sports team on this planet.
At least it should be.
Every blessing God has given you comes through THE LOCAL CHURCH. He set it up that way. He birthed the LOCAL CHURCH. He mandated it with a MISSION.
Thank God for THE MESSY LOCAL CHURCH! Still the best!
#Room2019
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Saturday, August 11, 2018

Is He still your FIRST LOVE?


We can do A LOT of things RIGHT & still hear Jesus say, “Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy FIRST LOVE.” Revelation‬ ‭2:4‬
WOW! Could it be that we’ve consumed every pleasure & pursuit...some even in His name...but have missed it all together? Is He still your FIRST LOVE?