Showing posts with label Laziness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Laziness. Show all posts

Thursday, July 18, 2019

5 Things For Friday

5 THINGS FOR FRIDAY
1. Be determined to provide the spiritual stability for your children that you may not have received yourself.
2. Don’t be lazy. Get up. Work. Worship. Witness. Win.
3. Stop making excuses for yourself. Stop blaming people for your situation. Stop being offended at the church because you feel they let you down. Stop that mess.
4. Do right. Pray till you pray through. Repent more than you rebuke. Love like Jesus loves.
5. Determine to be faithful & fruitful. Stay under a covering. Be loyal. Be committed. Be tenacious in your purpose. Dream big. Show up. Be on time. Be early. Encourage someone with your presence.

Friday, November 18, 2011

Get Out of Bed Sleepy Head!

What gets you out of bed in the morning? 
What floats your boat?  
What fires you up?
What are you doing here?
What is your purpose?
What steps are you taking to pursue that purpose?

I've been asked many times..."how do you stay so excited about what you do?
 Honestly, I can tell you that I don't always wake up "chipper" or ready to jump out of bed.  Sometimes I just want to pull the covers over my head and say, "I'm already behind schedule, how am I going to get caught up today?"

However...something in me is PUSHING me.  To say that it's "drive" would be saying that it's something I possess in my flesh that I rely on...but the truth be known...it's not anything in me...it's the PASSION of the Holy Spirit that COMPELS me to want to run this race!


You can have the prompting and energy of the Holy Spirit in you but still be lazy.  The key is "listening, following and obeying."  You must TELL YOUR FLESH..."you will not be lazy...you will follow the promptings of the Holy Spirit...you will do what you're told - without complaining!"



You can increase the PUSH of the Holy Spirit in you by...


1. Spending time with God!
  • My best time with God is when I'm all alone.  No distractions...no cell phone, TV, Internet...etc.  Just me and HIM...Isolated from everything and everyone!  Sometimes, you'll have to get up extra early so you can have your ALONE time with Him.  How is God going to IGNITE our church if I'm not personally ignited first?  This requires SACRIFICE!  The time we spend in prayer alone with God ... has nothing to do with getting ready for a sermon...it has everything to do with God convicting me, speaking to me, challenging me and leading me in His direction.
2. Getting out of the barnyard
  • If you cluck with chickens you'll never soar with the eagles.  The people you are surrounded by are either ADDING or SUBTRACTING the PUSH out of you!  Do inventory right now and ask who is a (minus) in my life and who is a (plus)?  
    • "Minus" people will DRAIN the life right out of you with their defeated spirit and negativity.  They are lazy, arrogant, have an entitlement spirit and expect you to CARRY them.  They are TAKERS...SELFISH and interested in their own needs first. A "minus" person will take all the heat out of the room with their DEFEATISM spirit.  However...
    • "Plus" people find ways to INCREASE, ADD and MULTIPLY and look for solutions! They show up on time, do their work with EXCELLENCE, speak when spoken to, LIFT the hands of others, OFFER ideas that will ADVANCE the Kingdom of God.  They do WHATEVER it takes to get the job done!  THOSE ARE THE KIND OF PEOPLE THAT PUSH ME!
3. Relaxing! 
  • Honestly, it's difficult for me to relax.  My mind is always moving.  It's something I have to really work on...REALLY!  Even when we go on vacation...it takes me a couple of days to DETACH from my mental planning and preparing.  I will BURN OUT if I don't take a "chill pill!"  God did not create me to run 24/7 as fast as the six million dollar man (that's 1970's for you young leaders reading this...google it...ha ha)!  The best part about relaxing my mind and resting my body is when I come back...I'm ON FIRE and REFUELED! 
4. Toning up!
  • I feel so much better physically when I work out!  It not only affects my body...but my mind and spirit are enhanced as well!  There are a lot of Christians who hold to the Scripture, "bodily exercise profiteth little." (1 Timothy 4:8) ... YOU FEEL BETTER when you exercise!  Honestly, If I'm to lead a growing church...I have to take care of myself physically.  NO...it's not fun...but it's definitely rewarding!  I've met a lot of people in the Lord's work that have so much to offer...but they aren't physically able because their bodies restrict them.  (Preaching all over myself here)
5. Taking the Garbage out!
  • If it stinks, it probably needs to be out on the curb.  Are there areas that need to be changed in your life?  If you are in a RUT...then it might be best to make some changes.  Every once in a while I have to clean out my closet and the garage.  Things get cluttered there. Clean up the clutter and you'll rediscover where your passion went. 
6. Tuning out Negativity!
  • Don't even waste your time trying to explain yourself to the critics!  If you come down off the wall to put out the fires of gossip, they'll light them faster than you can put them out.  Your friends don't require an explanation. One thing I've had to SETTLE in my heart is to not become obsessed with what people who don't know me think about me. When you serve in the Kingdom, people will take "pot shots" at you.  Expect it, deal with it and move on!
7. Surrendering to His plan!
  • His plans prevail.  His ways are higher!  He loves the church more than I do.  The world is in His hands...not mine.  If He called me to this work...He'll sustain me to do the work regardless of what I go through.  He was here long before I was...He's put in more hours than I have.  He has greater plans for this ministry than I do!  His power is so much greater than my performance!  It's His plan...I'm just facilitating what He's orchestrating! 


Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Laziness Can't Be Taught

Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II is nearly 85 years old and still works a full week from 9-5 plus several evening shifts and on weekends.  She has to be nice to thousands of people every week, shake hands with hundreds of them, share her mid-day and evening mealtimes with dozens of them, and look absolutely perfect a all times no matter what.

She's been doing it since 1952.  And she has to travel thousands of miles every year to events in far places where she's expected to be charming and perform.

There are many things one could say about her...but LAZY is not one of them!

She takes her responsibility serious and is constantly aware of what is taking place in her kingdom.  In once sense you could say she is a MICROMANAGER.

When you hear the word MICROMANAGER one tends to believe it that is "taboo" when it comes to leadership.  In our culture, most leaders do not want to be accused of this.

I'm convinced that all of us need to be held to ACCOUNTABILITY
Without it, we are a TRAIN WRECK waiting to happen.

Every leader needs to be EMPOWERED to casting a compelling vision and experimenting with ideas that may be out of the box.

Our personal preferences should not DICTATE every decision we make.  The freedom to explore will actually MAXIMIZE our abilities!

Getting the right team in place is VITAL.  Leaders who are SELF STARTERS are an incredible asset! Leaders who are LAZY hold up progress and certain things don't get done.

In Exodus 18 Jethro told Moses that he was trying to do all of the work and in doing so he would wear out and hinder the progress of Israel.  I agree with Jethro.  But there are quite a few instances in the Scriptures where MICROMANAGEMENT is essential...
  • Adam was micromanaged by God when he was told what trees he could and could not eat from.  Adam was empowered but ALL empowerment comes with direction and accountability.
  • Moses was micromanaged by God when he was given the vision of what to build and how to build the tabernacle...down to the measurements and color choices.
  • Joshua was micromanaged by God when he received the battle plan for Jericho.
  • Nehemiah was a micromanager - and also one of the most effective leaders in the Bible.  He empowered leaders, shared his authority and accomplished much!  However, when he returned in chapter 13 the vision God had given had fallen apart and was in complete disorder.  HOW DID THIS HAPPEN? He had leaders in place...they were empowered...BUT when a vision gets too far from the person God originally shared the vision with then it will always become DILUTED (taken away from) or POLLUTED (added to).
  • JESUS WAS A MICROMANAGER - He called people to follow Him.  He gifted and empowered them...He sent them out and the did incredible things.  BUT...when you look in the Gospels you'll see that many times He CORRECTED and INSTRUCTED them.  He didn't just let them do their own thing...He took OWNERSHIP of His leadership and LED them.
  • When the Holy Spirit came we were not only empowered to "do things" but He moved in us to make sure we get it right.
  • Even Paul was a micromanager - he literally wrote the majority of the New Testament...writing to the church and church leaders about what to do and what not to do. (also known as micromanagement)
Sometimes micromanagement is essential!
  • Leaders can sometimes become LAZY
  • It is good for us when God uses the Holy Spirit to put PRESSURE on us or other people to do the same.
  • When this happens it causes us to dig deeper and make corrections.
People don't do what you EXPECT
they do what you INSPECT.
  • If we don't embrace the CALL of God we'll embrace laziness because it's much easier to be lazy than to do what He expects.
  • The right thing is not always the easy thing.
If you're a Pastor/Leader don't give into the fear of what people think when it comes to MICROMANAGING.  You can't allow the labels people try to put on you to dictate your calling and ministry.

You must oversee the vision God has given you.  At times you'll have to put pressure on those you've empowered.  If you're working with someone who has a problem with being held accountable they will hide behind the accusation of "micromanagement" to excuse themselves from their ineffectiveness.

Someone who loves the church and loves you will not get mad when you occasionally ask some really tough, specific questions about a particular issue; in fact, they will embrace it because they know that having "that" conversation will CLARIFY the vision and will also prove that you actually CARE about them and their work.

As a leader, you'll never know everything about everything...but you should know something about what God is pressing into you.  Don't run from responsibility because of fear of more work!

Whether you're OVERSEEING the ministry from the 10th floor or the ground floor...do what God called you to do.