Contentment Is Great Gain

I would rather be doing the WILL of The Lord, in the PLACE of The Lord, in the TIMING of The Lord, than grasping for fulfillment & floating along without a spiritual HOME, COVERING & PURPOSE.

Peter went back to fishing (what he knew before), till he made his flesh obey the Spirit. The Lord’s calling upon his life brought him back to reality. Thank God he checked himself, before he wrecked himself.

There is nothing like being in the perfect will of The Lord....Summer, Fall, Winter & Spring. We never have PEACE, until we are reconciled to the Prince of Peace. The settled peace of God can’t be bought or exchanged with mere climates, conditions & circumstances.

Paul’s said it best...”But godliness with contentment is great gain.” 1 Timothy 6:6

When we are in the will of The Lord, our conversation & actions will showcase/convey what God is doing...not so much what we’re doing. We’ll be promoting The Kingdom of God & what God is doing through us in faith & fellowship, as it pertains to our PLANTING.

If we’re not bearing fruit where we’re planted, we must till the soil, season it with water & nutrients, provide light, pull weeds, prune & begin expecting a harvest. Don’t complain about your WHAT or your WHERE, if you’re not committed to the WHY.

I’d rather be SPIRIT led than FLESH driven. #KeepingItReal

Selah 

Bundle Up Buttercup! (A look at Contentment)

“Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever STATE I am, therewith to be content.” Philippians 4:11

Obviously, the Apostle Paul is referring to CONTENTMENT & not necessarily an actual STATE. But let’s just suppose he’s referring to geography too. 

What’s with people who are always talking about being somewhere else?

• “It’s too cold in the north, I want to be in the south.”
• “I don’t like it here, I want to be there.”
• “I’ve always dreamed of living in a certain place.”
• “If I could just get out of here.”

They act like where they are at now is so bad. The truth be known, if they move, when they get over “there” they’ll find another set of things that aren’t perfect. 

Adam & Eve were living in PARADISE (The Garden Of Eden) & they still couldn’t be content. They were in utopia & still had issues. 

GEOGRAPHY cannot & will not fix YOU!

A NEW SPOUSE cannot & will not fix YOU!

A NEW CHURCH cannot & will not fix YOU!

The spirit of ESCAPISM is rampantly jumping on folks. The same people who mask their decisions for “happiness, closeness & newness” end up AIMLESS. 

You have to learn how to be CONTENT where you are.  Then & only then can you learn what you need to learn. 

You have to FLOURISH where you’re PLANTED to have the testimony of Jeremiah 17!

“But blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence. They are like trees planted along a riverbank, with roots that reach deep into the water. Such trees are not bothered by the heat or worried by long months of drought. Their leaves stay green, and they never stop producing fruit.”

Jeremiah 17:7-8 NLT

I’m thankful for where I’m at. Whatever season it is....Young/Old...Warm/Cold...Etc. 

I’d rather be in the perfect will of God, where he planted me, then be drifting aimless with unsettledness. 

So many people I’ve met & even pastored, have great ambitions but have never mastered this CONTENTMENT issue. They leave a good church & you never hear them talk about being heavily involved in another church. Seems to me that if it was such a “God move” having a spiritual home & a pastoral covering would be top of the priority list & they’d be talking it up!!!

Focus on where God has you. Then & there is where & when you’ll find CONTENTMENT.  

You can be PHYSICALLY warm yet SPIRITUALLY cold.   

DETERMINE TODAY...

• I set the CLIMATE where I am. 
• I’m the THERMOSTAT not the THERMOMETER. 
• I don’t have to have something ELSE when I’ve already been given so much!

If you can master the issue of CONTENTMENT in your life, you won’t be always walking around DISSATISFIED, DISGUSTED or DISGRUNTLED!

You’ll be at PEACE knowing you’re in the PROVIDENCE of God. 

Bundle up buttercup. It’s cold today...but it will be warm soon & SPRING will bring a new perspective!

Until...I’m just gonna keep be FAITHFUL & FRUITFUL where I’m at. 

Selah 

You'll be 100% When You Learn To Be Content

What do you need to be HAPPY?  Some might say "people, places or possessions." Is happiness derived from JUST those things?

Some think that to truly be happy in life you need: 

1. Someone to LOVE 
2. Something to DO  
3. Something to HOPE for

Honestly, I think those things are pretty spot on. However, we have a way of frustrating ourselves and relationships when we look for happiness where it doesn't exist - unrealistic goals, things, short-lived friendships or even trying to impress the wrong people.

HAPPINESS and CONTENTMENT aren't pills you take.  They are life choices you make internally and externally based on experience, security, desire and outlook.


10 Pitfalls That Lead To Discontentment

1. People Pleasing - You end up getting hurt when you lose yourself trying to please everyone else.  You'll never be able to please everyone! At some point, you're going to have to hold on tight to who you are and not worry about losing the grip of others.
   
   
2. Looking for the Easy Way - Honestly, you'll be happiest when you put the pedal to the metal and meet the rubber where it meets the road. That means, you have to be willing to do what no one else is doing. Being willing to work hard for your dreams will separate you from the day dreamers and will define you.  It's really the difference between living and existing!
   
   
3. Insisting on Guarantees - To get to where you want to be, you have to tear walls down and build more bridges. You have to take CHANCES. RUN instead of walk. If you're going to be successful, you will have to be a DREAMER, a BELIEVER and a COURAGEOUS and CHEERFUL thinker!  The people that impress me the most and inspire me to dream lofty dreams of my own are POSITIVE MOTIVATORS, PRODUCTIVE DOERS and GO-GETTERS!
   
   
4. Competing with Everyone - You'll wear yourself out trying to compete with everyone else! You don't have to be smarter, richer or more attractive than the person next to you. Honestly, the people who aren't COMPETING are ENJOYING life because they're not near as worn out trying to race around to be better than everyone else. Listen...if you're going to compete with anyone...compete with yourself!
   
   
5. Being in Control - Friend...quit trying to control every aspect of your life.  RELAX and RIDE the path that life has you on and you'll discover a new found FREEDOM! It's when you take your hands off of everything that is insignificant and uncontrollable that you get to experience more of the GOODNESS in life!  I've begun to realize that it's often the UNEXPECTED SURPRISES that arrive when you are FLEXIBLE and OPEN to life's twists and turns.
   
   
6. Event Driven - It's the small things that have the most meaning in our everyday life. Sometimes, we focus on the BIG EVENTS like weddings, graduations, parties, birthdays, anniversaries and vacations...but these TIMES PASS because TIME PASSES. Learn to take joy in the small, everyday things...like the smile of your kids, the satisfaction of a home cooked meal or the fresh feeling of a manicured lawn.
   
   
7. Relationship Affirmation - We need RELATIONSHIPS...but happiness and contentment originate from WITHIN.  We cannot rely on the external validation of other people to achieve happiness.  When we become co-dependent on other people to achieve our affirmation, we become vulnerable and easily hurt because of INSECURE FEELINGS. Never give people POWER over you.  Be at PEACE with who you are or you'll never be CONTENT with what you have or who you're with. LOVE yourself FIRST.
   
   
8. Never Disagree - Honestly, as long as there are people, there will be DIFFERENCES of OPINION. That's OK. There will be times you'll see things differently from others and you will need to voice your opinion.  That's OK too.  However, it is not OK to be disrespectful in doing it. Effective communication is paramount! You have to talk it out sometimes.
   
   
9. Past Possessed - Some people act like their past experiences were better than they actually were.  They look at the present like it's horrible and they consider the future to be fair at best.  That's not the way to look at things.  If everything that comes out of your mouth is "yesterday, yesterday, yesterday" then you need to shift gears quickly. Learn to appreciate your PAST without reliving it, handle your PRESENT with confidence and face your FUTURE without fear!
   
   
10. Be Happy 24/7 - Really? That's not going to happen. Think about it...you can't be HAPPY unless you're UNHAPPY sometimes. Life is life and you're not always going to be on top of HAPPY MOUNTAIN. It's normal to fluctuate from day-to-day, month-to-month and even year-to-year. If you think you're supposed to be HAPPY all the time...you'll end up feeling DISILLUSIONED.  Friend...even when life is stressful, you still have a CHOICE in how you respond.

Just do your best and take life one day at a time.  Limit the amount of complaining you do and be GRATEFUL for the little things that mean a lot!