No Turning Back

Elisha was one awesome prophet of God! His name means ‘my God is salvation’ and the whole ministry of Elisha would prove to be an outworked testimony to the meaning of his name. You see, Elisha lived in dark times. Apostasy abounded and Israel’s enemies were circling. Yet through countless situations, Elisha stood as a light… a voice in the wilderness… showing through his life that the God of Israel was well and truly alive!

In fact, Elisha performed more recorded miracles than anyone in the Bible other than Jesus. Let’s look at how it all began. Let’s start at the beginning with the call of Elisha…

Forgetting that which is behind…

1 Kings 19:19-21 19So he departed thence, and found Elisha the son of Shaphat, who was plowing with twelve yoke of oxen before him, and he with the twelfth: and Elijah passed by him, and cast his mantle upon him. 20And he left the oxen, and ran after Elijah, and said, Let me, I pray thee, kiss my father and my mother, and then I will follow thee. And he said unto him, Go back again: for what have I done to thee? 21And he returned back from him, and took a yoke of oxen, and slew them, and boiled their flesh with the instruments of the oxen, and gave unto the people, and they did eat. Then he arose, and went after Elijah, and ministered unto him.

The first thing we see about Elisha is that he was a plowman. Here he was, plowing with his oxen to break up the tough rugged ground. He would remain a plowman to the end of his life although God had a whole new ‘ground’ in mind for Elisha. It wouldn’t be the hard natural ground that would concern Elisha after this point… Oh no! God had an even harder ground for Elisha to plow! It would be the hard hearts of the Israelites themselves that Elisha would now be concerned with.

So Elijah comes up and throws his mantle around Elisha. Elisha didn’t have to ask ‘what’s going on?’ He knew exactly what that meant. Mantle’s were typically made of animal hair (not overly popular today!) and were generally worn by kings and prophets. They were symbolic of the owners calling, position, and authority. So Elisha didn’t have to ask Elijah what was going on. He knew. This was a passing of Elijah’s calling and position onto Elisha.

God’s sovereign choice

From the passage we see that God choice Elisha. Elisha was simply going about his normal daily business of plowing the fields, when God came through his prophet Elijah and sought him out. In like manner, we read in the New Testament that ‘the son of man came to seek and to save that which is lost’. And, as Jesus said, ‘You did not choose me, but I have chosen you.’

Can I explain God’s sovereign choice and man’s free will completely?
No. Do I understand it completely?
No. But have I experienced it?
Yes. No doubt about it.

When we arrive it Heaven God can explain it all to us … until then, Christians should thank God that He has called and chosen them while still believing and agreeing with the call that ‘whoever is thirsty, let him come; and whoever wishes, let him take the free gift of the water of life.’

Counting the Cost

We see also the seriousness of Elisha’s response. How seriously did Elisha take this call from Elijah? Well, this is answered above where we read the Elisha slaughtered his oxen as a sacrifice and burnt the plowing equipment to cook the meat! No going back for this guy!

In doing this we see a great example of someone leaving behind the old life when the call of God comes. He knew this was a new beginning for him and there is no compromise with his past life. Jesus said it well (as normal) “No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God.” (Luke 9:62).

There is no looking back here!
How about you?
Have you been looking back or are you pressing on to the higher calling of our Lord?

Ministering unto the Lord

The last thing that we read in the passage above says ‘Then he arose, and went after Elijah, and ministered unto him.’ How true of us this is. Not with Elijah of course, but with our master, the Lord Jesus. We arise, count the cost, leave the past behind, and follow Him! And what’s more, we are called to minister to Him as well.

Pressing on to the higher calling

2 King 2:1-6 1And it came to pass, when the LORD would take up Elijah into heaven by a whirlwind, that Elijah went with Elisha from Gilgal. 2And Elijah said unto Elisha, Tarry here, I pray thee; for the LORD hath sent me to Bethel. And Elisha said unto him, As the LORD liveth, and as thy soul liveth, I will not leave thee. So they went down to Bethel. 3And the sons of the prophets that were at Bethel came forth to Elisha, and said unto him, Knowest thou that the LORD will take away thy master from thy head to day? And he said, Yea, I know it; hold ye your peace. 4And Elijah said unto him, Elisha, tarry here, I pray thee; for the LORD hath sent me to Jericho. And he said, As the LORD liveth, and as thy soul liveth, I will not leave thee. So they came to Jericho. 5And the sons of the prophets that were at Jericho came to Elisha, and said unto him, Knowest thou that the LORD will take away thy master from thy head to day? And he answered, Yea, I know it; hold ye your peace. 6And Elijah said unto him, Tarry, I pray thee, here; for the LORD hath sent me to Jordan. And he said, As the LORD liveth, and as thy soul liveth, I will not leave thee. And they two went on.

The next passage I will draw your attention to is 2 King 2:1-6. We saw earlier that Elisha had forsaken all to follow Elijah and minister to him. He was willing to submit himself to the will of Elijah and follow him wherever he went. Now, there are three things that stand out in this passage before us.

1. At each stage Elijah tells Elisha to stop and not to go any further with him.
2. At each stage, Elisha’s determination to press on and not leave Elijah is seen.
3. Each of the four places mentioned are highly significant and symbolic locations in Israel’s history.

Three times in the passage above Elijah tells Elisha to stop and stay where he is! Kind of strange wouldn’t you say? It’s almost like Elijah is testing Elisha as to how far he is willing to go. Actually, there is no ‘almost’ about it! That is exactly what he is doing. And I believe that it applies to us as well.

How far do you want to go with the Lord?
Have you been tested whether you will press on to the higher calling of our Lord?..
Because you will be tested.
Even when the Lord was on earth He tested people to see if they truly desired to be with Him.

Luke 24:13-33 13And, behold, two of them went that same day to a village called Emmaus, which was from Jerusalem about threescore furlongs. 14And they talked together of all these things which had happened. 15And it came to pass, that, while they communed together and reasoned, Jesus himself drew near, and went with them. 16But their eyes were holden that they should not know him. 17And he said unto them, What manner of communications are these that ye have one to another, as ye walk, and are sad? 18And the one of them, whose name was Cleopas, answering said unto him, Art thou only a stranger in Jerusalem, and hast not known the things which are come to pass there in these days? 19And he said unto them, What things? And they said unto him, Concerning Jesus of Nazareth, which was a prophet mighty in deed and word before God and all the people: 20And how the chief priests and our rulers delivered him to be condemned to death, and have crucified him. 21But we trusted that it had been he which should have redeemed Israel: and beside all this, to day is the third day since these things were done. 22Yea, and certain women also of our company made us astonished, which were early at the sepulchre; 23And when they found not his body, they came, saying, that they had also seen a vision of angels, which said that he was alive. 24And certain of them which were with us went to the sepulchre, and found it even so as the women had said: but him they saw not. 25Then he said unto them, O fools, and slow of heart to believe all that the prophets have spoken: 26Ought not Christ to have suffered these things, and to enter into his glory? 27And beginning at Moses and all the prophets, he expounded unto them in all the scriptures the things concerning himself. 28And they drew nigh unto the village, whither they went: and he made as though he would have gone further. 29But they constrained him, saying, Abide with us: for it is toward evening, and the day is far spent. And he went in to tarry with them. 30And it came to pass, as he sat at meat with them, he took bread, and blessed it, and brake, and gave to them. 31And their eyes were opened, and they knew him; and he vanished out of their sight. 32And they said one to another, Did not our heart burn within us, while he talked with us by the way, and while he opened to us the scriptures? 33And they rose up the same hour, and returned to Jerusalem, and found the eleven gathered together, and them that were with them,

The road to Emmaus - Testing your desire

Jesus ‘acted like He was going further.’ In the language of modern relationships, he was ‘playing hard to get.’ He had wet their appetite by showing them himself in the law and the prophets, but now He was testing their desire for Him. And sometimes He will do this with you.

Like Elijah testing Elisha, the Lord also longs to see whether we will press on further, following hard after Him, with the desire to know Him better. Had these disciples not truly had a desire for more time in the presence of this man on the road to Emmaus they would have missed out on Christ revealing himself to them further at their home. Don’t miss out!

I really like the words quoted above from 2 Kings 2:6 where Elisha said‘ “As surely as the LORD lives and as you live, I will not leave you.”

"So the two of them walked on."

There was nothing that was going to stop Elisha from following Elijah no matter where that led him!
And so the two walked on! I hope you are going ‘on’. I also hope that attitude to ‘go on’ is found within me! Whether it is serving the Lord in small or great things, it really doesn’t matter. Whether the Lord seems close or far away, all that matters is that the Lord has His rightful place in your life and that you are ‘pressing on to the higher calling of our Lord’. From Gilgal, to Bethel, to Jericho and to the Jordan…

How far did Elisha want to go? Just as far as Elijah wanted to take him! May we be the same!

I Need a Change

I cannot change what is wrong on the outside of me until I first change what is wrong on the inside of me.

Most of us would like to change something about ourselves. Perhaps a different body shape, nose, eye color, hair color or even our name. We generally start with the external first. However, that is not always the place to begin. If real change is to take place then I must first begin with my heart. Change must be from the inside outward.

How many times have you confronted your spouse with a problem they have that is destroying your relationship and they plead for another chance and promised they will change? But they never change. It is on the outside that they try to change but do nothing on the inside.

As a Pastor, I see people all the time desiring to change their church attendance. They come for several weeks in a row and then they drop off. What happened? They attempted to change the external without first changing their heart. The change does not last.

Real change on the inside happens when God changes me.

God has His part and I have mine. He is the one who gives me a new heart and spirit. When God changes my heart, I become more sensitive as to how He expects me to live.

Last week, I visited the dentist to have a new "on lay" put over some old fillings I received when I was a child. After the visit, for several days, my teeth were sensitive to cold beverages. Something had been done to my tooth and as a result I was much more sensitive.

Whenever I allow God to work on my heart, I become much more sensitive as to how God wants me to live my life. I become more aware of God as I live each day. When I become dull as to how I am to live my life, it is evident that I have not allowed God to work on my heart in a while.

When real change takes place in my heart, God shifts my attention from simply dealing with my problems to building real relationship with Him.

Focusing all of our energy on our relationship with God helps put everything else in it's proper place. If you have a marriage problem, try building a relationship with your Heavenly Father. Then, all the mess in your life will seem to fall in line.

Also, when God changes my heart, I am aware that there are other people with problems equal to or greater than mine. Now, that my heart has been fixed, I can help others rather than just focus on my problems. When I try to help other people with their problems then my problem looks a whole lot smaller.

Sometimes our problems get big because all we do is focus on our problems. God shifts our attention to the needs of others by giving us a heart of flesh.

My success to dealing with my problem lies in God's hands not mine.

If you are reading this today and know you need to change but are not willing to allow God to change you...then know that lasting change will not come. But, if you'll acknowledge God you'll be successful.

Change in my life is more dependent upon God than it is upon me. We all have things we would like to change about ourselves. Any real change has to occur on the inside and that is where God gets involved. When God gets involved, you will easily recognize the signs that your heart has been changed.

Is It Worth It Anymore?

Today, my heart reflects on the goodness of our Lord and all He has done. Even the heat of the sun today is a reminder of God’s beautiful creation and the fact that His mercy endureth forever! (Psalms 136:8)

I’m still feasting on the five decisions that were made for Christ on Sunday! This is what it’s all about for me! SOULS, SOULS, SOULS. Discipleship!!!!! My souls yearns for new believers!

Sometimes, we can become so occupied with “ministry work” we simply forget to BREATHE in the goodness of the Lord.

• He’s the one who placed us in ministry.
• He’s the one that called us.
• He’s the one that enabled us to get out of bed this morning.
• He’s the one we must never lose our LOVE for.

• What is it that motivates me to serve Him with unbridled passion?
• What is it that keeps me going when faced with the fickleness of human emotions?
• What jump starts my dead batteries in the morning?
• What carries me through difficult situations?

FAITH

Simply put, my faith in the unchanging hand of God.
• He has never lost a battle.
• He has never given in to fear.
• He has never compromised His commandments.
• He has never retreated.
• He has never made a promise He didn’t keep.
• He has never allowed calamity and trials steal His victory.
• He has never told a lie.
• He has never thought about quitting.
• He has never regretted dying for my sins.
• He has never stopped loving me.
• He has never talked about me behind my back.
• He has never stopped believing in me.
• He has never ignored me.
• He has never not shown me mercy and kindness.
• He has never needed a jumpstart.
• He has never sold the truth for a lie.
• He has never talked out of both sides of His mouth.
• He has never been intimidated by a mountain.
• He has never lost sleep over bills.
• He has never not answered.
• He has never quit me.
• He has never grown weary of me.
• He has never hated me.
• He has never been impartial.
• He has never held my past against me.
• He has never held a grudge.
• He WILL NEVER stop loving me!

I can’t express in words at this moment the depth of my love for Him.
• Without Him I would have already given up.
• Without Him my past would have dictated my future.
• Without Him the old man wouldn’t have let go.
• Without Him my song would only be sad.
• Without Him my future wouldn’t be secure.
• Without Him my heart would be aching.
• Without Him my stomach would be in knots.
• Without Him my nerves would be shattered.
• Without Him my feelings would stay hurt.
• Without Him I would be a train wreck emotionally.
• Without Him I wouldn’t have the courage to face tomorrow.
• Without Him my pain would be too overwhelming.
• Without Him I’d be most miserable.
• Without Him there’d never be a sunrise or a sunset.
• Without Him my family would be dysfunctional.
• Without Him my earthly plans would derail my future.
• Without Him my imaginations would deceive me.
• Without Him I’d given up a long time ago.
• Without Him my marriage would fail.
• Without Him my child would have no Godly heritage.
• Without Him I wouldn’t want to live in this cruel world.
• Without Him I would have retaliated when my enemies reproached me.
• Without Him I’d be somewhere out of mind right now.
• Without Him I’d been locked up somewhere.
• Without Him I would have repeated patterns of dysfunction that the world declares is normal living.

Oh, but with Him I’ve seen the joys of souls saved.
• With Him I’ve gained courage to keep walking.
• With Him I’ve been held back from sins destruction.
• With Him I’ve seen my family come to Christ.
• With Him I’ve traded my sorrows for His treasures.
• With Him I’ve won the victory.
• With Him I’ve gained freedom from the haunting of my past.
• With Him I can press through.
• With Him I can climb over.
• With Him I can war a good warfare.
• With Him I can command the devil to flee and he must!
• With Him I can enjoy the blessings afforded by grace.
• With Him I can declare words of promise over my generational seed line.
• With Him I can behold new beginnings.
• With Him I can weather the storm.
• With Him I can stop the lions mouth.
• With Him I can run faster and farther.
• With Him I can preach with boldness.
• With Him I can deal with life’s everyday issues.
• With Him I can sleep at night.
• With Him I can rest my spirit and body.
• With Him I can say goodbye to stressful living.
• With Him I will not be defeated.
• With Him I will overcome.
• With Him I cannot lose.
• With Him I’ll keep singing.
• With Him I’ll keep preaching.
• With Him I’ll keep pastoring.
• With Him I’ll keep administrating.
• With Him I’ll keep dreaming.
• With Him I’ll keep feeding.
• With Him I’ll keep leading.
• With Him I’ll keep visionating.
• With Him I’ll take risks.
• With Him I’ll walk on land and water.
• With Him I’ll shut out the voice of naysayers and complainers.
• With Him I’ll keep on doing what I’m called to do.

• Don’t give up.
• Don’t quit now.
• Don’t lay down the fight.
• Don’t surrender to doubt.
• Don’t forget your armor.
• Don’t retreat.
• Don’t shut down.
• Don’t sit idle.
• Don’t burn out.
• Don’t fall out.
• Don’t doubt Him.
• Don’t remain reluctant.
• Don’t forget your dream.
• Don’t forget your calling.
• Don’t forget your YES with God.

I just received word while writing this post that our Youth Pastor led two people to Jesus on the street in front of the church!!!!! They were walking by…he was intentional…AND JUST LIKE THAT…Salvation!!!! Isn’t that what’s it’s all about?????

Is it worth it? I think so.

Leadership Thoughts

CHARACTER is what you are in private. CHARISMA is what you are in public. The further the two are apart, the greater the deception.

A rebellious leader lacks the character required to carry the full measure of God's power.

Choose OBEDIENCE and you'll receive lasting peace. Choose DISOBEDIENCE and not only will you lose your right to lead but you'll short change God's master plan.

REDISCOVER your purpose by RELINQUISHING your will to His.

ABANDON your pride and ADOPT humility.

A SUBMISSIVE heart is a SURRENDERED head.

YIELD to the vision of the house and watch YOUR personal vision unfold.

CARRY the mantle of another leader and you'll COLLIDE with double portion anointing.

Is This a Fatherless Generation?

I didn't realize it then, but now I know that early in my ministry, as I served in youth ministry, I was connecting with future generations as a spiritual father. It wasn't until 2005 that I realized God was sharpening this "life call" in me that would propel me forth with a burning passion to make a generational impact.

Honestly, at times, being a spiritual father is taxing to my emotions. In 2005, God spoke to me about mentoring men. I'll never forget the first week I began to mentor 24 men. My heart was leaping within me and my spirit was electrified as I stepped out of the boat to take a step of faith. All I know is that I sensed a great responsibility upon me to impart my life into a group of men who would in turn impart theirs to others.

I was raised in a home with a father. My dad not only provided for us, he imparted Godly principles by his example. Honestly, I can't imagine not having a father in the home. Today, as I consider this generation's fatherless dilemma, my heart breaks. It's as if I can feel God's heart breaking for them as well.

Deciding to function in the role of fatherhood was definitely an easy one due to the passion I felt God bestowed in me. However, I learned quickly that being a spiritual father is so much more than just being a "manager" or a "boss." I guess, if I'd had my way, I'd rather manage. At least I can navigate through that with out much risk. In fact, it's probably safer. However, God didn't call me to just manage...He called me to leave my place of comfort and stretch forward to fathering.

In my travels, it seems everyone is looking for a spiritual father. The Word of God declares that we have many instructors, but not many fathers. (1 Corinthians 4:15) The difference between an instructor and a father is that instructors teach while fathers train. Teaching only prepares me to pass the test at the end of the course. Training is much more. Training involves a personal commitment to develop through experience over and over again until it's "caught."

There are so many people in the body of Christ thirsting for a spiritual father! This generation is looking for someone to not only "teach" them but to also "wake" the potential in them. We need someone to give us a big push towards our destiny. When a spiritual father takes this role to heart they make a promise to their spiritual sons:

1. You can trust me.
2. I'll believe the best about you.
3. I'll be there for you.
4. I'll share my life with you.
5. I'll tell you the truth.

These promises will take a lifetime to achieve. A teacher only imparts for a season of your life. A spiritual father is committed for the long-term.

Unfortunately, not everyone follows through on their promises, you cannot always determine who your spiritual father is until you look back over your shoulder through the process of time and confirm them by those who have fulfilled their promise to you.

You can want to be someones spiritual father but will never be until they claim you as such. If that happens, then and only then do you have access to speak into their life fully. If you accept the role of fatherhood and then fail to follow through on your promises you plunge the "son" into further orphanage. This causes deep pain within your sons' heart and feelings of abandonment begin to surface.

I guess you could say "it's better to under-promise and over-deliver." Young people have been lied to so regularly that they have grown suspicious of anyone that attempts to get close. Only voice the promises you know you can deliver on. I guess we should start with "I'll believe the best in you" and "I'll tell you the truth." Perhaps then, over time, trust will come and we'll be on our way to fathering a fatherless generation.

The Lost Art of Loyalty

When you consider the word loyalty the thought of allegiance comes to mind. The idea is that you wholly commit yourself to an idea, a cause, an industry even a person.

Loyalty is expressed every day in the choices we make as consumers, from grocery stores, restaurants, hotel chains, airlines, theaters, gas stations and more. Our consistent patronage to these businesses establishes a pattern of loyalty. In recent years, many places of business have developed “rewards” for consumers who express routine patronage. These rewards can include discounts, merchandise, free lodging, gasoline, and even cash.

Another way we can express loyalty is through our speech. If you are committed to a cause, an organization, a church or even a person, your communication will express it. Many businesses rely on word of mouth advertising. If you’ve ever bought a home or car, the agent or sales person will give you a handful of business cards. The hope is that you will give these to your friends and family and tell them how pleasant your experience was.

Loyalty at its best will inspire others to make a commitment.

Of course, the flip side of loyalty is disloyalty. What does it mean to be disloyal? Disloyalty carries the idea of unfaithfulness, traitorousness, treachery and even infidelity.

The Scriptures reveal the heart of disloyalty in David’s son, Absalom. He was a man full of offense, hatred, unforgiveness and bitterness. He appeared to be loyal to the king but his words were full of discredit and even revenge.

2 Samuel 15:2 And Absalom rose up early, and stood beside the way of the gate: and it was so, that when any man that had a controversy came to the king for judgment, then Absalom called unto him, and said, Of what city art thou? And he said, Thy servant is of one of the tribes of Israel.

2 Samuel 15:5 And it was so, that when any man came nigh to him to do him obeisance, he put forth his hand, and took him, and kissed him.

David loved Absalom. Perhaps this is why he was reluctant to deal with his son’s antics and rebellion. Dealing with the spirit of disloyalty is emotionally draining especially when you “hold out hope” that a person will hearken to the voice of the Holy Spirit and make the necessary corrections that will ultimately aid their spiritual maturity and ministry longevity.

This spirit is difficult to deal with, often because people become attached to one another emotionally and are blind to the indicators of character flaws.

A disloyal spirit will often display the following characteristics:

1. They seek an audience.
2. They use love and kindness to steal the hearts of followers.
3. Say things like this, “You are special to me and my friend.” “I love you more than the pastor; I will spend quality time with you – he doesn’t.”
4. They use special treatment to gain followers: gifts, favors, fellowship, food, etc. Everyone likes to be treated special.
5. Nothing the pastor/leadership does is good enough for Absalom. They look for fault.
6. They plant doubt concerning leadership. They make references to minor things to create major issues.
7. They have a hidden agenda. Their motives aren’t known until they manifest and it’s too late. Absalom is sneaky and does things behind your back.
8. Absalom tells you what you want to hear. (A pastor’s job is to speak the truth in love; sometimes that truth hurts and requires change, but is always for our good.)
9. Eventually they become brazen and open about their disloyalty.

Absalom’s downfall ended like that of Jezebel, Korah and Judas. They fell through pride and their lives ended prematurely and tragically. It is dangerous ground to sow strife and cause division in the body of Christ.

Proverbs 6:16-19 16These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him: 17A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, 18An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief, 19A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.

One of the main causes of division in the church is disloyalty to the present leadership. Disloyalty doesn’t manifest overnight. It is an attitude that develops through various stages. If we can recognize the stages of disloyalty then we’ll be able to correct it before it takes hold.

1. An absence of humility and willingness to submit to leadership.

Luke 17:7-10 7But which of you, having a servant plowing or feeding cattle, will say unto him by and by, when he is come from the field, Go and sit down to meat? 8And will not rather say unto him, Make ready wherewith I may sup, and gird thyself, and serve me, till I have eaten and drunken; and afterward thou shalt eat and drink? 9Doth he thank that servant because he did the things that were commanded him? I trow not. 10So likewise ye, when ye shall have done all those things which are commanded you, say, We are unprofitable servants: we have done that which was our duty to do.

2. Desire for recognition.

Desiring the praise of men can cause you to do things with the wrong motivation. When we begin promoting ourselves in order that we might receive personal recognition, our desire is no long God please but rather self pleasing.

Galatians 1:10 10For do I now persuade men, or God? or do I seek to please men? for if I yet pleased men, I should not be the servant of Christ.

3. Spiritual pride

When we think too highly of ourselves and our own ministry, we begin to think that our suggestions are the best. If this continues, we will give ourselves over to spiritual pride. As a result we try to impress others with our ideas and comments. This type of behavior cuts us off from others (especially those who have oversight over us) and makes us unwilling to receive suggestions, input and even correction.

Often when we’re developing in our leadership, we can’t see through the eyes of experience. This is why we must allow those who are more mature in the Lord to speak into our lives. With the right information, we too will be able to understand how a particular decision by leadership fits within the totality of the overall vision of the church.

Proverbs 26:12 12Seest thou a man wise in his own conceit? there is more hope of a fool than of him.
Proverbs 12:15 15The way of a fool is right in his own eyes: but he that hearkeneth unto counsel is wise.
Proverbs 19:20 20Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end.

4. Cannot be taught or corrected.

When the leadership rejects the ideas of the individual, he takes it as a personal affront. His spiritual pride has been injured. He feels that his whole ministry has been rejected and misunderstood. He begins to speak lies in his heart in regard to himself and others, particularly those in authority.

Proverbs 13:10 10Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.
Proverbs 12:1 1Whoso loveth instruction loveth knowledge: but he that hateth reproof is brutish.

5. Critical spirit.

In himself he must now justify his own independent spirit. The leadership has rejected his ideas on this occasion, so he feels there must be something wrong with his judgment and discernment of the leadership. His spiritual pride is at stake. He begins to use his own ideas as a criterion for the judgment of all the decisions of the overseers. As a result, he develops a critical spirit toward leadership.

Proverbs 12:20 20Deceit is in the heart of them that imagine evil: but to the counsellors of peace is joy.
1 Thessalonians 5:12-13 12And we beseech you, brethren, to know them which labour among you, and are over you in the Lord, and admonish you; 13And to esteem them very highly in love for their work’s sake. And be at peace among yourselves.

6. Competitive spirit.

Because of the log in his own eye, this person can no longer exercise right judgment. He begins to develop a competitive spirit in regard to his leaders, and at times must distort facts to feed his ego. By distorting the views of the leadership and contrasting them with his own, he is able to gain a measure of recognition from others around him.

Proverbs 18:10 10The name of the LORD is a strong tower: the righteous runneth into it, and is safe.

7. Party spirit.

Because of his fear of failure by lack of recognition from the spiritual oversight, he begins to gather to himself others who are discontent and dissatisfied with the decisions of the leadership. In this way he gathers disciples unto himself who will help him feed his ego and his thirst for recognition. Soon he begins to stir up discontent that becomes a challenge to spiritual leadership.

Proverbs 10:17 17He is in the way of life that keepeth instruction: but he that refuseth reproof erreth.
James 3:13-16 13Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him show out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom. 14But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth. 15This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish. 16For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.

8. Divisive spirit.

He now begins to feed this group with the things that he has fed himself upon for so long. He accuses those over him of insensitivity to true spiritual authority (namely himself). He gossips against the leadership in progressive degrees of severity. He begins by speaking against those faults and frailties in the leadership that are obvious to all, and not necessarily related to spiritual qualifications. He then moves to more obscure areas. Those around him believe him because he was right about the other things.

Proverbs 29:22 An angry man stirreth up strife, and a furious man aboundeth in transgression.
Proverbs 24:28 Be not a witness against thy neighbour without cause; and deceive not with thy lips.
Proverbs 26:21-28 21As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire; so is a contentious man to kindle strife. 22The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly. 23Burning lips and a wicked heart are like a potsherd covered with silver dross. 24He that hateth dissembleth with his lips, and layeth up deceit within him; 25When he speaketh fair, believe him not: for there are seven abominations in his heart. 26Whose hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness shall be showed before the whole congregation. 27Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein: and he that rolleth a stone, it will return upon him. 28A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin.

9. Marked by leadership.

He is encouraged by the support he receives on the areas of those minor problems he has emphasized. He feels he is gaining true spiritual authority. At this point it is finally noticed by the leadership, because certain things are beginning to come into public view. It is likely that the leadership will reject him as a disloyal follower. The people who have been following him are forced to choose sides in the conflict.

Proverbs 28:2 For the transgression of a land many are the princes thereof: but by a man of understanding and knowledge the state thereof shall be prolonged.
Romans 16:17 Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.

10. Majoring in the Minors.

In justifying his position, he finds it necessary to lay extreme emphasis on those minor grievances which all agree are true. People are hence encouraged to make a decision on minor issues, not really understanding the heart of the problem.

Matthew 23:24 Ye blind guides, which strain at a gnat, and swallow a camel.
Proverbs 20:5 Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out.

11. Splintering.

We now have a splinter group that begins to go its own way. It begins to break off from local leadership in disloyalty and rebellion.

Proverbs 21:28 A false witness shall perish: but the man that heareth speaketh constantly.
Galatians 6:7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
Proverbs 5:11-14 11And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed, 12And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof; 13And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me! 14I was almost in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly.

We have seen how disloyalty develops and ultimately manifests itself in separation and ruin. Disloyalty is not always easy to see externally, and that is how many times it goes unchecked in the early stages. If disloyalty is not recognized and dealt with, it will ultimately bring division to the work of God.

It is important that we as individuals use these tests on ourselves. We should allow the Holy Spirit to examine our hearts in the pure light of God's Word. If we catch ourselves in the early stages, we must confess, repent and reconcile. We should also seek accountability for our heart problems with those God has placed in authority over us. As we work and live together with the people of God, let us endeavor "to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace." (Ephesians 4:3)

Monday Momentum 5-2-10

Monday Momentum 5-2-10

A Seasoned Server

We frequently find ourselves eating at restaurants. I guess it’s a pre-requisite if you’re going to be in the ministry. It seems that a majority of our meetings take place around a bowl of chips & salsa accompanied by a large sweet tea for me and a diet coke for Beverly.

I remember when we came to BFWC in 1999 every family in the church was determined to take us to dinner. We were very appreciative of their offer and thrilled to break bread with our new congregation. However, what we didn’t realize was they all wanted to take us to the exact same restaurant. We laugh about that to this day. And by the way, we haven’t eaten at that restaurant for years – I guess we got burned out on it.

One thing I admire about a quality restaurant is the professionalism of their team. From the hostess who seats us, the server who waits on us to the manager who checks on us – if you’re in a place that is service driven, you’re in for a good experience.

Having served in customer service for many years, I’m a stickler for quality, not to mention I’m melancholic by nature and I recognize immediately the difference between excellent service and poor service.

I’m always thrilled to be greeted by my server within 2-3 minutes of being seated in their section. I appreciate the appetizer suggestion but I don’t want to be badgered into buying a basket of mozzarella sticks. Honestly, skip the beer & wine sales pitch…get straight to my sweet tea order, followed by a salad with ranch dressing and then my entrée in a timely manner. Can someone say DELICIOUS?

Now here’s what I love about a seasoned server: They pay careful attention to your need for a refill. But the best part is they don’t interrupt your conversation to ask the obvious … “would you like a refill?” They just do it! In fact, a seasoned server is invisible. You don’t even see them give you a refill.

Now consider this:

• Acts 6:3 3Wherefore, brethren, look ye out among you seven men of honest report, full of the Holy Ghost and wisdom, whom we may appoint over this business.

The Apostles were looking for “servers” to carry forth the business of the church. In other words, someone who waits tables. Think about it…waiting tables in God’s Kingdom requires a high standard. (Honest, full of the Holy Ghost and wise)

Waiting tables in the natural and serving in the ministry are very similar. What those early deacons did by way of feeding the widows natural food was in spiritual contrast to prayer and the Word of God for the church.

If you don’t have a desire to serve people – you shouldn’t serve in ministry. Focus on the word DESIRE. In fact, it’s the first thing mentioned in the requirements for the ministry.

• 1 Timothy 3:1 1This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work.

Have you ever met someone who has such a desire to serve in ministry that they’re willing to serve in any capacity, regardless of pay? However, I’ve seen those same people change by losing their desire for serving the Lord and His people soon after they get the “position” they’ve been searching for.

Their desire is diminished by stress, circumstances, people, things, etc. Things aren’t what they appeared at first and suddenly they lose their love for the ministry they once craved.

In the ministry, we cannot avoid people or problems. In fact, without people we wouldn’t have a need for ministry. If we’re going to serve in ministry, we must retain our love for people. Parents don’t lose their love for their children. Even if the child breaks a dish, marks the walls with crayons or gets a bad grade on their report card. Why? Because of unconditional love and a sincere desire to be a good parent.

When you love your kids, you’ll go to the moon and back again to express that love. Our love and desire for Jesus, people and the ministry not only sustains us…it constrains us.

• 2 Corinthians 5:14 14For the love of Christ constraineth us; because we thus judge, that if one died for all, then were all dead:

When we draw strength from the love of Christ, our love for serving people is more than a task to be endured…it’s a JOY! Regardless of the trials, tribulations and troubles that often come with serving our love for God sees us through it!

Think about what a waiter in a restaurant endures:

• Their job can be taxing physically, mentally and emotionally.
• Someone who serves in ministry will have all that plus spiritual demands.
• When people are hungry they can be rude.
• They can be hard to please.
• Isn’t the same true in the ministry for people who are spiritually hungry?
• Some people make you think you can’t do anything right.
• In the body of Christ there are the SWEETEST and the MEANEST.
• Then consider the jealousy that comes from other waiters when a big tipper sits in the other waiters section.
• They’re all supposed to be working on the same team, for the same company, for the same boss, for the same goal and yet envy still creeps in.
• And yet, even though this is sinful, I’ve run into “teammates” who become jealous of another person’s success in ministry.
• Watch out!

• Proverbs 3:31 Envy thou not the oppressor, and choose none of his ways.
• Proverbs 14:30 A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bones.

Waiting tables in ministry or at a restaurant requires certain expectations. You are expected to please your boss (the company) and the customer. If your boss is unhappy with your work, you could get fired. If the customer is unhappy with your service you’ll lose the tip.

And yet, even though it’s difficult and a balancing act at times, there great rewards from serving. If you do your job well, everyone is happy. (i.e., you boss, the customer, your co-workers, the cook, the cashier and the custodian) EVERYONE WINS when we do our job well!

Placing yourself in the role of “service” can be humbling. But isn’t this what Jesus did?

• Mark 10:45 For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.

Honestly, I don’t want anyone preaching in our pulpit that isn’t willing to mop a floor or scrub a toilet. Regardless of their educational status, if they’re not willing to do the “menial” task without an audience then they don’t earn a spot in my book to do the “large” performance in front of the masses.

• Matthew 23:11 But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.

In ministry and restaurants alike, the server must have a “right fit.” I feel it’s very important not to jump at the first opportunity that presents itself. Let me make an observation. If a restaurant has to advertise that they need help, then consider this possibility: there’s a reason they need a new waiter and there’s a reason they have to advertise. I would want to know what those reasons are before I jumped in head first.

Can the same be said of a church? Sure. Before you make a commitment you need to know the sustained climate of that church. Sustained climates produce cultures. Understanding this will be revelation that could spare your from having a “bad taste” in your mouth.

What does it mean to serve? Does it mean we stand around doing nothing, twiddling our thumbs? The definition of SERVE means: to work for somebody; provide for; be useful; assist; have a particular effect; etc.

In other words, to work for someone while providing the best assistance possible to achieve a desired result for the one we’re serving.

Is this what Isaiah 40:31 means? But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

Our strength will be renewed when we serve the Lord by serving His people. An effective, waiter, pastor, ministry leader, etc., follows

We serve the Lord by serving His people. In order to be a good waiter, or a good pastor, there are certain basic principles we must follow.


#1 Don’t Be Late
I was taught that if you show up on time you’re late. If you show up early…you’re on time. Nothing is more aggravating than waiting for someone to show up who is continually late. As table waiters (servants) we ought to be the first there and the last to leave.

#2 Don’t forget to Pray
If we ever needed God’s direction, we sure need it now! When you start your day (i.e., ministry event, activity, etc.) with prayer, you are less likely to error. It’s during our prayer that we can condition our heart to serve with humility, be a blessing to our peers, leaders and even the people we serve.

• Colossians 3:23 And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;

#3 Get Organized
Know your role and function. This requires research. Thankfully, the Scriptures are full of passages that deal with the role of servant hood. Knowing the ins and outs and the ups and downs of your particular field of service will help you be prepared to give the best possible service when called upon. One thing I love about Disney World employees is that everyone…from the person who picks up trash to the people who perform in the shows…they have all been trained to answer your questions the same. Bottom line: they know their role and function.

#4 Suit up
This is elementary. However, sometimes we need to be reminded to dress for success. Again, I know this is basic, but some people just don’t get it. Get a haircut; brush your teeth; press your clothes; take a bath; comb your hair; use a lint brush; carry mints; etc.

First impressions are lasting impressions. How people perceive you is how they receive you. If you’re going to serve someone, make sure you present yourself in the best possible light. Nothing worse than having someone wait on me in a restaurant who is sneezing all over my food and showcasing their tongue piercing in my face while they chew their gum to take my order. Let’s be CLASSY whether we serve in ministry or public service. Before you step out of the house, look in the mirror and ask “would I wait on myself?” If you critique yourself first, you just might silence your critics before they have a chance to form a negative opinion.

#5 Be Agreeable
Don’t be argumentative and hard to get along with. (2 Timothy 2:24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all.) When we serve, we will have to serve through conditions that aren’t always pleasant. Grin and bear it.

#6 Work on Tolerance
You’re going to encounter picky people who will have you run all over the map before they finally decide what it is they really want. While you’re jumping through hoops to please everyone don’t allow the demand of ministry expectations to cause you to get snippy.

You'll hear things like this: “It’s too loud.”, “it’s too cold.”, “the sermon’s too long”. Friend, the list goes on. My advice is to keep going! Don’t let the fastidiousness of people wear you out.

• Galatians 6:9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.

In time, you’ll see the results you’re looking for. It might not happen overnight, but believe me it will happen. If you get discouraged now you’ll quit before your harvest comes. It is too soon to quit!

#7 Be Watchful
As a servant, you learn through tenure the appropriate way to serve. You remain constantly aware of the ones you’re serving. They don’t have to ask for a refill…you just see that it is taken care of. Like a shepherd who watches over his sheep, he knows the condition of the ones he serves even if the sheep can’t see him. Always keep your eyes open when serving. Look for ways to use the gifts you’ve been given in a non-intrusive or ill mannered way. If you neglect your post, you may not have a post to serve at later.

#8 Offer an Apology
If we fail in our service, we must simply ask for forgiveness. Believe me, when you serve, you’ll make mistakes. The worse thing we can do is to try and hide it or make excuse for it. The best thing we can do is to confess it and make it right. Friend, we can overcome any failure if we finish strong! Overcomers are called overcomers because they had something to come over!

Consider Jesus who came not to be served but to serve and give His life a ransom for many.

Why Are You Forsaking The House of God?

Nehemiah 13:11 Then contended I with the rulers, and said, Why is the house of God forsaken? And I gathered them together, and set them in their place.

Nehemiah asked the question that needs to be asked today. If a Christian doesn't meet regularly with others for fellowship, prayer, and the preaching of God’s Word, his enthusiasm for the Lord’s work will begin to fade.

This leads to apathy in spiritual matters, and before long such a one will begin to blend in with his worldly surroundings to the point that nobody would ever know he’s a new creature in Christ Jesus.

The attitude some church members take toward their church is somewhat, to say the least, a little bit perplexing. They say everybody should attend church and yet never go themselves. They expect the church to be there when they need it and yet never support it. They encourage the effort to seek new members for a church they do not attend. Parents want their children to attend the church even though they never go.

What we really need today is a willingness to turn from our excuses and follow God’s instructions in His Word concerning the church and the believer’s responsibilities to her. If you are not a practical member of a church, than you need to join one! If you are already a member of such a church, then you need to love it and support it with your presence, prayers, and even your "purse."

Your church is the place where you can grow, find comfort and fellowship, and serve the Lord for His honor and glory. Can you say as David did in Psalms 26:8, "Lord, I have loved the habitation of thy house, and the place where thine honour dwelleth."

The next time you stay home on Sunday morning, Sunday night, Wednesday night, or when your church is having a Bible or mission conference, or when your church is having a revival meeting, or whenever else your church doors are opened, remember that there’s no excuse for not attending.

It’s amazing the excuses I’ve heard people give for not going to church. They can make it to everything else but somehow ALWAYS have an excuse for not making it to church. Usually, these are the same people who fault the church for not being "there" for them.

I was raised in a pastor's home. I've heard some real classics! I would like to thank all the wonderful people in the body of Christ who have provided such quality material for us to be able to share.

Here's a few excuses that will either make you mad or make you smile:

The kids wanted to sleep in.

I had a flat tire.

I just felt like the Lord was telling me to stay home and meditate.

I’ve worked all day, I’m too tired. (Don’t pay attention to my facebook which tells the “real” truth.)

I’ve worked all week, I’m too tired.

The kids need to get in bed early.

By the time I got off work, drove through traffic, picked up the kids, I was too tired – you know I need my rest and have to get up early.

I’ve planned another get-a-way (at the last minute)

I don’t feel good.

I can make the church dinners and fun stuff, but going every service – well that’s just too much. Besides, what does Jesus expect out of me anyway?

I work lots of hours, so I’m too tired to worship God.

I don’t have anything to wear.

I watch online.

I’d go if they’d let me sit in the balcony.

I watch the 700 club, that’s good enough.

It’s deer season again.

It’s turkey season again.

It’s bear season again.

It’s squirrel season again.

It’s fishing season again.

It’s duck season again.

I can’t afford to give anything and I don’t want to be embarrassed.

I’ll go to church after I graduate from college.

Service is too long.

The sermon is too long.

I don’t like the music.

It’s too hot.

It’s too cold.

I camp every weekend.

My family never went to church when I was growing up. I’m not used to it.

My spouse doesn’t go.

My backside hurts from all the sitting and my knees hurt from all the kneeling.

Nobody notices when I’m gone anyway.

The game will be on at the same time.

I’m studying.

I’m allergic to crowds.

I have to mow my yard.

I have to wash my car.

It’s my family reunion again. (10th for the year)

I don’t have gas money (however, that didn’t prevent me from going shopping)

My spouse and I work different shifts and Sundays are the only day we see each other.

I was too tired after playing cards with my friends till 2 am last night.

I volunteer to work on Sundays.

I don’t like how things are being run anymore.

God told me not to go.

I went last Sunday.

I think I have a fever again.

I have a cold and I need everyone to stay home with me and help me blow my nose.

I can’t handle crowds so I’m going to the race instead.

I can’t handle crowds so I’m going to the ball game instead.

I don’t get off till 6 pm on Wednesdays.

It’s not Easter yet.

My spirit is trying to lose weight and doesn’t need to be fed.

I was forced to go when I was younger.

We are planning a big yard sale.

My alarm didn’t go off (again)

I have a headache.

I have a hangover.

I lost my car keys.

It's football season.

It’s basketball season.

It’s the play offs.

NASCAR.

It’s the Olympics and you know they only come around every four years.

I bought season tickets this year, don’t expect to see me too much.

I bought a boat.

It was such a nice day we decided to go for a drive and then sit on the porch and watch people drive by.

My kids are in sports.

My DVR broke so I need to stay home and watch Desperate Housewives.

I’m on vacation for two weeks. (We’re not going anywhere really, but I need to get away from church.)

I can have church in my home.

We have a new dog.

My cat had kittens.

It’s snowing.

It’s raining.

It’s a full moon.

I needed some alone time.

I forgot it was Sunday.

If I know I’m going to be late, I just don’t go.

I believe in being balanced.

There was a sale on.

I got too involved in my last church and burned out. So, I don’t want to do that again.

I wasn’t scheduled to do anything at the church so I just stayed home.

I need to clean my house.

We are remodeling again.

This is the only time the contractor said he could be there.

I need to do laundry.

I am offended at someone in the church.

I don’t like shaking hands.

I don’t like being expected to go.

I am depressed again.

You preached at me last Sunday and I’m offended.

Are you the Pentecostal Police?

Family comes first pastor! (Oh…I thought God did. Don’t confuse God and church)

My family is visiting and they don’t like church.

Friends came in and I feel obligated to entertain them.

It’s my birthday, kid’s birthday, spouse’s birthday, mother/dads birthday.

My husband didn’t want me to go so I felt I should be submissive to him (when I want to) and stay home.

My wife didn’t want me to go and I felt I should be sensitive to her needs (and while I won’t admit it publicly – she rules the roost)

We got into a fight on the way to church and decided not to come.

I don’t feel “led”

Jesus understands.

The Lord knows my heart.

I feel closer to God in nature.

I have heard the topic preached before – don’t need to hear it again.

Jesus told me to stay home and spend time with Him.

I Love Eggs

One of my favorite desserts is "Banana Split Cake." Whenever Bev makes this I want to eat the entire thing myself. (Graham cracker crust, Butter, Eggs, Powdered sugar, Pinapple, Bananas , Whip cream, Cherries, Nuts)

• Layer after layer...it's the best! I'm sure it's fattening and has lots of calories that can't wait to get their hands on my waistline. :-)

Here's a question...what if she left the eggs out of the recipe? What's the big deal with eggs? Why do most recipes call for them?

Well, the egg is like GLUE. It keeps everything together. It adds strength to the overall ingredients.

Now relate this to your life. We all need "eggs" in our lives - people and leadership that keep us together while we're going through the "oven" of life.

What do you consider to be an egg to you?

1. Jesus. I love the old song that says "without Him, I could do nothing. Without Him, I'd surely fail. Without Him, I would be drifting, Like a ship without a sail."

2. Beverly. When God gave me her, He gave me a "good thing." She is the glue that keeps me together and we enjoy shepherding together.

3. The pastoral team I work with. They are incredibly talented and gifted. They encourage, inspire and challenge me to do want to do better. Thanks guys! (Josh, Nathan & Jeremey!)

4. Our super ministry team! Without them, the wheels at BFWC would come to a halt. I'm amazed at the way these leaders "make it happen" every week!

5. The Spiritual Fathers in my life. Their wisdom and guidance continually provide strength to my personal leadership.

There are more. Who are yours?